Celebrate dad with a gift for him . . . and a gift from him!

Dads, father figures, granddads often taught many of us how to be prepared for the unexpected, how to handle some of life’s challenges.  We might have learned from our dads how to change a flat tire, how to mow a lawn, or how to use basic tools.  Whatever he may have taught you, you listened and learned.  Looking back on those times, you are grateful for those cherished memories.  This time of year, we think about those moments and pause with a smile.

If you are fortunate to still have these special dads or granddads in your lives, you might be thinking what can possibly be done to let them know how much they mean to your family. You can start by doing two things; help them be prepared in an emergency with creating a “File of Life” and show them how much their life story really matters to you. 

A “File of Life” is typically a document that lives on the refrigerator and is available to emergency responders when they enter one’s home. It includes basic information including name, date of birth, allergies, emergency contacts, list of current medications, health conditions, surgeries, primary doctor, and preferred hospital. If your father has a DNR (Do Not Resuscitate) order, it must be with his file too. If using a file like pictured below, it is best to write in pencil, so it can be updated about every 6 months or when something changes. It is helpful to take it to one’s annual wellness exam or yearly physical. When seconds count, this gift can save his life.

With a little encouragement, your father can give you a meaningful gift this Father’s Day too.  Sometimes the men in our lives are the historians, the gatekeepers of the family stories, the one who remembers all the funny times.  There isn’t a better time than now, to have him write down his legacy.  The gift of a written or recorded legacy is invaluable and will be cherished for decades to come.  It can be a special family time where the young ones in the family participate, ask the questions, even write it down.  Or for those who want to do it on their own, there are books, online tools, and various self-guided workbooks to get started. No matter what way you choose to collect the information, the process alone creates valuable memories.

This Father’s Day carve out some time and do something special with it!  Take time to help your dad create his “File of Life” and encourage and help him to record the story of his life for future generations.

Senior Living: Planning for our Future

There are many things in life we cannot control.  The good news is we can control our response to what happens to us. One way to be prepared to respond is to create long term health care goals and plans and share them with family.  It is never too early to have these discussions. At any point in life, one may endure an illness, injury, or diagnosis that throws you into a sudden healthcare crisis.  And that is not the ideal time to start planning.

Ponder these questions to start your planning:

  1. Do I have a trusted physician who is skilled in geriatric medicine with whom I see regularly and who listens and understands me?  Are they helpful in connecting me to the right medical specialists depending on my health conditions?

  2. Do I want to remain in my home for as long as possible? Or do I want to move to an adult retirement community or a continuing care community?  Do I understand the difference between the two?  Am I aware of the best local home care agencies if and when I need help with tasks such as transportation, housekeeping, meal preparation, medication reminders, and personal care services?

  3. Do I have a long-term care policy? Do I understand the daily benefit amount, length of benefit, the waiting period before benefits begin, and the types of care it covers?

  4. Do I have the legal and financial experts in place whom I trust and know will be available to me when needed?  Have I designated a health care power of attorney and a financial power of attorney who is aware of my wishes?

  5. Do I have my will and advance directives updated and does a trusted family member or friend know where they are? Do I have my “file of life” located somewhere in my home visible to emergency responders?  (To include allergies, list of medications, health conditions, emergency contact information, and a DNR “Do Not Resuscitate” if you have one)

Once you have marinated on these topics, identify the areas where you may need more help.  There are many trusted folks in our community who can assist you in planning -- whether it be clergy, a parish nurse from your church, a home care agency nurse, a certified financial planner, an estate planning attorney, or a certified geriatric care manager. Asking for help can be hard and making some of these decisions ahead of time can be daunting. But it is well worth the time and effort to have a long-term health care plan in place that YOU created!

Newsletter

Caregivers Newsletter
Volume 1, Issue 1

April is stress awareness month. We all know some stress is good for us. For seniors, stress can be overwhelming. Contributing factors to senior stress can be loss of a spouse or friend., living alone can increase isolation. This stress can intensify health conditions causing additional worries.

Here are 5 common signs of stress in Seniors:

1. Changes in eating habits, over-eating or loss of appetite

2. Mood swings and increased irritability, general sadness or depression

3. Seniors often isolate themselves from others.

4. Physical signs of stress can be body aches and pains or increased episodes of illness. Changes in sleeping patterns whether falling asleep or interrupted nighttime sleep.

5. Memory lapses may arise in the form of increased forgetfulness of names, places, or other things that typically come naturally. Lack of Concentration, poor judgment such as excessive spending.

Tips for Alleviating Stress:

  •  Do some physical activity. Yoga, tai chi, exercises designed for seniors, or simply take a walk this can alleviate the effects of stress. 

  •  Meditation can also be beneficial, taking time out to collect your thoughts can lead to increased energy.

 Healthy eating and getting a good night’s sleep are great stress busters. Cells are regenerated and harmful invaders are destroyed while we sleep.

  •  Get a pet. Science shows us that the unconditional love that pets exhibit helps us to naturally de-stress with powerful effects of lowering our blood pressure.

  •  Find a new purpose to fill your time: volunteer, senior activities, a class.

  •  Socialize—socialization offers a chance to clear the mind of daily responsibilities.

  •  Seek Professional help; many communities have special services for the elderly.

Caregiver New Online University

Stay in touch with continuing education through our on line university on our website. We will be giving incentives for those who continue education through this site…. Stay tuned for more information on this….

Home Careolina

If you have an active senior ;bring them out to the Fun and Fitness Day at Jetton Park, April 15th from 9:00-11:00am. We will have a booth set up. Come by and let your senior get a chair massage by our office staff ,licensed massage therapist, Ina Salber.

Note: check out our new video on the front page of www.homecareolina.com

Caregivers

We at Home Careolina take pride in our caregivers. Our clients have entrusted us into their hearts and homes. Although we can get very attached, we still must remain professional and ethical at all times. Remember you are caring for someone’s loved one. We truly are the eyes and ears for our clients.

Emergency

We are available 24/7, (704-892-0030) for our clients if an emergency arises, but please be mindful, if you must call after office hours that it is truly an emergency. Our staff works hard to meet our client needs and yours, but they also have families to tend too. Thank you for understanding.

Caregiver tip:

“Laughter truly is the best medicine.” Recharge yourself with making yourself laugh, or watch a funny movie, comedy show, or call a friend that makes you laugh, find humor in every day situations

Thank you for all you do for Home Careolina, we strive to be the number one senior choice for home care. If you have any questions or concerns please don’t hesitate to call on us. 704-892-0030

Thanks again,
Mary, Ina, Paula, and Judy

 

Do you know a compassionate person who is looking for part time work?

Are they looking for a rewarding part time job? 

Do they want to make a difference in someone's life? 

Do they want to do something meaningfuland make some money at the same time? 

Caregiver and Client
Caregiver and Client

Then a companion caregiver job at Home Careolina is the job for them!

We are always looking for great caregivers.  Specifically, we hire women and men who have the "caring gene."  People who have a passion for helping our elderly friends and neighbors.  We have clients in Charlotte, Concord, Kannapolis, Denver, Statesville, Mooresville, Huntersville, Davidson and Cornelius. And we are constantly hiring quality companion caregivers and CNA's (certified nursing assistants). 

We train and place our caregivers in the homes of seniors who want to stay at home rather than move to a facility.  They are often forced out of their homes prematurely because they can't manage their household tasks, have memory issues, or continue to drive safely.  We create care plans based on our clients' individual needs.  Some folks need more help than others and we go to great lengths to make sure that our caregivers and clients are a great match!  Our clients come to expect "boutique style" service from us and it’s our pleasure to provide that level of service to our clients and their families!

Our trusted agency has provided care for seniors since 2004.  We are bonded and insured and have a Registered Nurse on staff who trains and supervises all of our caregivers.

If you or someone you know wants to learn more about becoming a member of our Caregiving team and can pass a rigorous background check and has reliable transportation, then visit our website and fill out our online application at www.homecareolina.com.

Andi Carroll

704-892-0030

Home Careolina

Communication Techniques to help those with Cognitive Impairment.

Recognizing the need for the way you communicate and implementing these approaches will allow for less chaos, behavior and frustration.

  1. Use Yes/No questions and avoid choices and open-ended questions.

  2. Avoid lengthy explanations.  Give short, simple explanations.

  3. Never argue or power struggle.

  4. Avoid giving more than 1 task at a time.

  5. A low pitched, slow, measured tone of voice will help reassure the person.

  6. Speak slowly and clearly.

  7. Be concrete and specific.

  8. Be patient. Give the person time to respond.

  9. Keep a calm, accepting, and open affect.

  10. Long-term memory is often intact, so encourage reminiscing.

  11. Try to interpret the feelings the person is try to express rather than the content.  Pay attention to body language.

  12. Avoid treating the person like an infant.

  13. Do not directly challenge delusions or fantasies, but cast doubt.  For example, “you may think you are in France, but this is the United States.”

  14. Consistently re-orient the person to person, place and time.

  15. Avoid frustrating or confusing topics.ccTry to change the subject.

  16. Be aware of your body language and consciously slow down and relax.

 

Andi Carroll
704-892-0030
Home Careolina

My Story: The birth of Home Careolina Senior Care

People often ask me how I came to be an owner of a home care agency.  Are you a nurse? No.  Do you have a medical background? No.  So how is it that a mother of four decided to open a home care agency in the Lake Norman area in 2004?  I often joke that Home Careolina is my fifth child.  But it really isn't much of a joke.  I do feel like I gave birth to this service company nearly ten years ago and have nurtured it along the way each year since....much like my children!

In 2003, my mother in law had a need for short term home care following a surgery.  I was shocked to learn that most agencies serving the Lake Norman area were based in Charlotte or Statesville.   I saw a need for a local presence and decided that it was time for me to re-enter the workforce.  After taking time off to start our family, I wanted to do something that was service oriented.  I knew that whatever I did would take valuable time away from my family.  Therefore, it needed to be time well spent and worthy of that sacrifice -- so helping seniors age in place in their own homes was a perfect fit. 

Home Careolina Senior Care has enjoyed steady growth since its inception.  We have a wonderful team of caregivers and an office staff who has a true spirit of service.  I like to describe Home Careolina as a "boutique" home care agency -- not because we are more expensive -- because we are not, but because we are truly different.  We are not a franchise so we have complete control over how we run our business.  Our RN's and office staff will bend over backwards time and again to best serve our clients' needs.  Why? It's rather simple, because we care.  Because we live here, our children go to school here, we attend church here....this is our home and these seniors and their families are our friends and neighbors.  To us, this is more than a business....it is a way to give back to a community that we love and cherish.  We should all be able to grow old here.

So, if you know of anyone who could use some extra help at home or a family caregiver who needs a break, give us a call....we can help.

 

 

Andi Carroll, Co-owner
704-892-0030
Home Careolina